The Reason You're Stuck Isn't What You Think..
You're literally ONE SMALL decision away from a completely different life and you keep choosing the same one instead???
Every. Single. Day…
it's not because you're dumb or because you don't know what to do. You ALREADY know! I see this all the time with my clients.. someone comes to me and they already know the answer they just want me to tell them that the answer is correct. Which I’m okay with doing but, they already feel it in their gut themselves.. they've been going back and forth in their head for so long that they've convinced themselves they're confused. You're not confused!! You're having conversations with yourself and then lacking the confidence to follow through. You're saying you want something but you're not believing you can actually have it. & I get it!! That's such an annoying place to be because you KNOW you're better than that.
So why do you keep doing it? Why do you keep repeatting the same day over and over?
Because your brain is literally working against you right now and most people have NO idea. There's something in your brain called your Reticular Activating System and its whole job is to filter your reality based on what you already believe. Think of it like wearing different glasses. If you've been walking around telling yourself "I'm not ready" or "I can't do this" or "people like me don't get to have that," your brain is ONLY showing you evidence of that! It's filtering out every opportunity, every open door, every sign that says you're ready because it doesn't match what you've been programmed to believe. And that programming comes from your past memories, experiences, even past lifetimes. You've been stuck in this loop way longer than you think..
& honestly here's the part that should piss you off.. your brain is not gonna change that loop for you!! YOU have to break it. And yeah, it's uncomfortable as hell sometimes. But you know what's way more uncomfortable? Being stuck! Being stuck is SO much worse than just doing the thing and failing at it. I would rather move than stay in the same spot for the rest of my life. 99% of people in this world just decide to repeat their life over and over again and daydream about their dream life instead of actually building it.
Are you gonna be one of them? Or are you gonna be different?
Because thing that nobody wants to accept is that if you want to be successful, you have to start reprogramming your mind to believe you ARE successful. Right now!! Not when you "get there." NOW!!!! The only difference between you and the version of you living your dream life is literally just that.. you think you're not there yet. That's it!! That is the ONLY shift you need to make.
So, if you're gonna overthink anyway.. why not overthink in the better direction?! Why not think about how good life is getting then? You have no gaurantee that the future will look how you think it will.. so why not create a good one?
So how do you break this look and shift your life?? I call it going into Creator Mode. Creator Mode is when you have a thought and you just DO it instead of sitting there going back and forth until the moment passes. That's when you stop being the person who repeats the same day on loop and you actually start creating your reality. And honestly it's not even that deep.. think about it like this.
When you have to go to the bathroom, do you just sit there like "oh my God I have to go" until the absolute last minute? Or do you just get up and go?? Some people wait. Some people just get up. So which one are you? Are you the person who gets up? Or are you the person who's like "I don't know if I can yet" or "I'm too tired" or whatever the excuse is? If you want your dream life you have to GET UP AND GET IT! It's literally like playing the Sims lol.. you're the player!! Stop watching your character just stand there doing nothing! Let’s get to work!!
& trust me when I say I'm not saying this from some high horse. I had to learn this the hard way. My whole life I never let myself be seen. I was so shy, soooo insecure about being in the limelight like I genuinely did not want people looking at me. I was the girl who would fail a presentation just because I was too nervous to get up there and talk.. When I started this journey though.. I told myself I was only gonna be a writer because that felt safe. But then I realized I could reach so many more people with my voice and my face by actually showing up on Tiktok, instagram or youtube. And I was TERRIFIED!!! Like shaking scared hahah I would get the nervous sweats the whole time.. But every single step was worth it. And you know what actually shifted my reality? It wasn't even the actions. It was the mindset shift BEFORE the actions. It was me deciding "no, I DESERVE to be seen even if I’m scared" instead of cowaring down and telling myself "don't look me in the eye" or "I'm ugly" or "I'm not enough." The moment I changed what I believed about myself, everything else started moving. It took me years... But it was so worth it!!!
So, that's exactly how it works for you too because it doesn't have to happen overnight! That's the part people get wrong. They think they need some massive life overhaul and then they get overwhelmed and do nothing. No!! With quantum physics it's literally proven that the small things add up to the big things. We're created out of millions and millions of tiny molecules and each one of your daily steps is like creating one of those molecules to build the entire picture of your whole life! Waking up at a certain time. Going to the gym even if it's just for 5 minutes. Making one different choice today. Going vegan after years of wanting to.. Walking away from that relationship even if it’s scary.. Moving cities?! That's all it takes to start breaking the loop.
The only difference between you and your highest version is literally just those small steps. That's it!
So here's your challenge.. I want you to go into Creator Mode for 24 hours. Do it today or tomorrow, don’t give yourself any other option.. Every single time you think of doing something, DO IT. Even if it's just one step toward it. You're thinking about doing your hair? Go do it! Thinking about the gym? GO! The only thing stopping you is you sitting in an old reality that doesn't match your dream life. If the dream version of you has already done those things, then it's up to you to go do them!
Nothing here is set in stone. It's all an illusion and science continues to prove that.. So what is YOUR real? What is your decision? Who are you gonna be today?
Overthinking is normal. Being a creator of your own reality is also normal. Pick your normal!!!
If this hit you and you wanna go deeper into what's actually going on in your energy right now — book with me today. I don't sugarcoat and I don't do generic EVER! I will help you get to your dream life, pretty or not. Hope to see you soon :)
Ps. If you do this challenge, please come back to this blog to comment and share your experience with us all!
Michelle M Malter | MysticMMoon
