So You’re Manifesting But Nothing’s Happening… Welcome to the Void

Okay, let’s talk about that part of manifesting that literally nobody warns you about. The part where you’ve been doing everything “right”.. you’ve been journaling, visualizing, being intentional with your thoughts, healing, raising your frequency, working on your self-concept.. and then suddenly... nothing. Just silence. Like radio silence from the Universe. No signs. No shifts. Just a boring, dry-ass space where you’re like, cool, love that for me.

And you sit there thinking, “Okay sooo… what now?” Because you’re not spiraling, you’re not negative, you’re not doing anything “wrong”.. you’re actually doing really well. You’ve outgrown the old version of yourself, and you’re aligned with something higher, but now you’re just... stuck in the middle. That space? That’s the void.

The void in manifesting is where most people give up. This is where people go back to their ex, quit their business, start doomscrolling, distract themselves, and convince themselves that maybe the life they want isn’t actually possible. Because the void is weird. It’s uncomfortable. It feels like you’re walking through fog with no GPS. You’re just out here raw-dogging faith.

For me, the void just feels super dry and boring. Like you’re reaching for something but there’s no response. You were getting signs and symbols and synchronicities before.. and now it’s like they vanished. You’re sitting there like, “Did I miss something? Did I mess it up? Did I fall off?” But no, babe. You didn’t do anything wrong. This is just the part of the process where you shift from creating your manifestations to holding the frequency of already having them. And that’s where it gets real.

The Universe is literally watching you right now like, “Alright… can you embody this version of yourself even when nothing’s happening?” And you’re like, damn... guess I have to. Because manifestation isn’t just about thoughts and scripting.. it’s about energy. It’s about identity. It’s about becoming. And this is the moment where the Universe steps back and is like, “Show me.”

It’s spooky af in the unknown. I’m not gonna lie. The void is triggering because your ego wants instant gratification. You want proof. You want momentum. You’re like, “If I’m doing the work, where’s the thing?” But you hit this brick wall where nothing’s really moving, and now you have to decide if you’re gonna stay aligned anyway. This is that moment where your old patterns try to sneak back in. Your nervous system starts tweaking. You start checking your bank account, stalking your crush, comparing yourself to strangers online, trying to “figure it out.” But that’s literally the moment where you don’t figure it out. You just have to sit in the energy.

This is what nobody says: when the void hits, it means it’s working. You’re not in the phase of creating anymore.. you’re in the phase of being. Your only job now is to be in the vibration of already having what you asked for. That’s it. You’re walking around like, “Yeah, I already got it,” even when there’s no physical proof yet. And then one day, randomly.. two weeks, two months, whatever.. it hits you in the face just like that brick wall did. That’s how it happens. Every time.

But the hardest part is the not-knowing. Like, how long do I have to hold this frequency? Days? Weeks? Months? And the truth is… you don’t get to know. Because we’re not manifesting outcomes, we’re manifesting identities. You’re becoming someone new. You’re not just saying “I want love” or “I want money”.. you’re becoming someone who receives those things with ease. And that version of you? They don’t need constant signs and validation to know it’s done. They know.

And listen.. your nervous system plays a huge part in this. I wish more people talked about that. It’s not just about thinking positive. If your body doesn’t feel safe receiving, it will block the things you’re calling in. Period. So what do I do when my nervous system starts tweaking in the void? I regulate. I literally wash my face with cold water to reset. I go on walks. I drink water. I notice my habits and redirect them. I start showing up like the version of me who already has the thing. For my girlies especially.. I take hormone helpers, especially in my luteal phase, so I don’t lose myself. I use Primrose oil, Vitex, omega-3s.. things that support my physical body so I can stay grounded. Because again, your nervous system will shut everything down if it’s not regulated. You can’t fake energy.. you have to feel safe in it.

& yeah, people call it delusional. But it’s not just delusion.. it’s intention. It’s choosing to walk through life like you already have what you want, without proof. That’s not delusional. That’s literally what faith looks like. And honestly? That’s what makes people powerful creators.

Now, let me tell you something real. I don’t usually give up in the void. I’m stubborn as hell. That’s why I’m a good coach. I know I create my reality. But I’ve had moments where I felt beat down. Where I was like, “Will this even happen?” But I always come back to one truth: it will only not happen if I say it won’t. I have that power. You do too. One of the biggest examples of this for me is how I even got to where I am now. I used to work in HR. I actually liked it, but I knew it wasn’t my soul’s purpose. I tried starting a travel agency because I wanted freedom and to run my own business. But then something told me to make a TikTok video about tarot. I had never done that before. I just listened to the nudge. I trusted it. And I instantly closed out my travel biz and went all in on tarot because it lit me up. That was about 6–8 months ago. And now I’m here, living my purpose, talking to all of you, and getting paid to help people heal and align.

And yes.. I’m still in the void sometimes. Some days I get a bunch of readings. Some days it’s quiet. But that’s okay. I’m learning how to hold the frequency, not just chase it. And I know once I fully stabilize in it, everything I’ve been creating is gonna overflow. I’ll have consistent abundance, deeper impact, and all the things I’ve been aligning with.

What I wish someone had told me sooner is this: you don’t have to overdo it in the void. You don’t have to sit there repeating affirmations every second or forcing yourself to feel high vibe 24/7. Your thoughts matter, yes, but it’s really about your state. Your energy. Your safety. Heal your nervous system. Take care of your body. Meditate. Breathe. Be with yourself. The energy will catch up.

When I get bored AF and nothing’s happening, I literally just keep learning. I’m like, “Okay, I want to be a billionaire.. so what does a billionaire mindset actually look like?” And then I start journaling and asking myself, “Do I actually believe I can be that abundant? Can I expand into that?” I get curious. I open up my mind to receive. And that keeps me steady.

So if you’re in that boring, dry, nothing-is-happening phase right now… please don’t give up. You are literally in it. You are in the part where most people sabotage. But you’re not most people. You’re here for more. You’re meant to expand past this. Even if it feels like nothing’s moving, you are moving. Your energy is evolving. Your reality is recalibrating.

It’s worth it. Every second of it!!

Whether you’re manifesting money, love, a new business, confidence, a healthier body, a softer life, or just the motivation to get to the damn gym.. it’s all coming. The void is not your enemy. It’s the space where your old self dies and your new self starts whispering. Just don’t mute yourself. Dont stay stagnant, keep going.

Let me leave you with a little note I wish we could all hear during this phase.. You’re not broken. You didn’t mess it up. You’re not behind. You’re just in the becoming, the unkown land you’ve never entered before and that’s the most powerful place to be.

My readings are open and my guides are available if you're called :)