When you remember your power, everything shifts!
The energy recently has been like a lot of up and downs. Like either you're really great or you're really bad in relationships right now, but it's also like there's a lot of movement between everything. People trying to get back together, and then having misalignment after. Or full-on no contact energy. Same loops, same hookup culture, just a lot of **** all the time. And it’s time for us to allow ourselves to step out of that and actually have more self-worth. More confidence. More standards. Period.
This isn’t just about romantic relationships either.. this is about your relationship with everyone. Yourself. Your family. Your friends. The collective energy has just been... off. And I’m not saying it’s just astrology but like... Mercury retrograde didn’t help. And now that it’s ending, people are missing people. Thinking about the past. Revisiting situations that honestly should have stayed in the archives. But it’s also the perfect time to take your power back. This is when you stop texting them back, stop spiraling, and actually step into the version of you that doesn’t accept bare minimum BS.
And I just want to say this loud and clear: it is OK for a man to pay your bills. It is OK for a woman to rest. It is OK for divine feminine energy to exist in softness, nurturing, and RECEIVING. Men are supposed to go out, build, protect, provide. If that upsets anyone.. ask yourself why. Like, not to be offensive, but especially in the U.S. right now, a lot of men are out here trying to act feminine and soft but still expect women to give 10x emotionally and physically. And they don’t even meet their own standards. That’s absolutely **** disgusting. I said what I said. And yes, toxic femininity exists too. People-pleasing, manipulating through emotions, playing small just to be chosen. All of that needs to be looked at. But the point is: we are collectively so outward-focused right now that nobody’s actually connecting to themselves. Like, do you even know what you want in a relationship? Or are you just trying to be liked?
One of the biggest self-worth issues I see right now is that everyone’s trying so hard to be chosen that they forget to choose themselves. And rejection?? It’s not even that deep. Not everyone is meant for you. Not everyone is supposed to like you. Not everyone’s going to choose you.. and that’s actually a GOOD thing. Stop sitting around wondering why they ghosted you and start asking if you even liked them to begin with. Like when you go on a date and you're sitting there obsessing over how you look or whether you said the right thing. Babe... are you even asking if they’re good for you? Do they align with your values? Do they make you feel emotionally safe? Spiritually safe? Financially supported? Or are you just trying not to be alone?
When people are heartbroken or confused they forget they’re allowed to be happy again. And I’m not saying “just be positive” like some weird bypassing. I’m saying quantum physics literally proves that what you focus on becomes your reality. Your thoughts and emotions aren’t always even YOURS. They’re programming. Sometimes ancestral. Sometimes absorbed from others. We do talk telepathically. You do pick up energy. And if you don’t clear that... you’ll stay stuck in loops that were never yours to begin with.
So look in the mirror and give yourself a compliment. Dance. Scream. Cry. Journal. Put your phone on Do Not Disturb. Breathe. Raise your frequency intentionally. Even for five minutes. And if you need help with that, go search a meditation on YouTube. Or literally just ask me and I’ll make you one lol I got you.
If you need a mantra: “I am the creator of my reality. I choose peace. I choose alignment. I choose ME.”
And if you're into witchcraft? Demand energy. Stop asking. Do a spell. Call back your power. Stop playing like you're weak or someone’s victim. Nobody is controlling you.. unless you’re accepting it. And if you’re stuck in a 9 to 5 job you hate, this is your wake-up call. You don’t need to sell your soul for survival. You were not born to be a slave in the system. It’s modern-day slavery, period. You can get paid just to exist.
Also.. angel number 144. I see it constantly. It’s been following me for like two years and every time it hits, something shifts. If you’re seeing that too? That’s a sign. That’s alignment. Comment and let me know if that number’s been chasing you, because same.
I’m sending you all so much love right now!!nI know how it feels to question your worth. I know how it feels to feel rejected or overlooked or stuck. You’re remembering your power. You’re recalibrating. And if you’re ready to go deeper, I have reading spots open this week. If this post hits and your soul is like “okay yes I need more of this,” click here to book with me. Or comment below if you feel connected to this! Whatever you're called to do, follow the pull. Spirit is guiding you for a reason.
NONE OF US ARE HERE TO SETTLE!! We’re here to shift the entire damn paradigm!! Ily all 😊
By Michelle M. Malter
